How to approach chastity in your D/s relationships
Chastity in the mainstream There is a growing trend of kink and BDSM lifestyles being discussed openly within mainstream culture.
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Category: Blogs
Are you submitting for the right reasons?: Thoughts on self-esteem in BDSM for submissives
by the Boi slave Rough thoughts on self-esteem in submission I’ve lost count of the amount of guys that contact
Red Flags in BDSM for Dominants and submissives
Jamie is 24, relatively new to the BDSM community. Expressing a desire to become slave in order to explore a
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Are Our Terms Fit for Purpose? Total Power Exchange (TPE)
Society trains us to impose order on every aspect of our lives. Our past, present and future are restrained, splayed
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5 Myths about Power Exchange relationships
There are so many myths about BDSM and/or Leather lifestyles, it’s important to sift through, dispel the lies and expose
Do safewords have a place in all aspects of TPE or BDSM dynamics?
Published by Boi slave (Mattie), with permission of The Boss Before delving into this question, I missed something kind of
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Here’s Why Safewords Don’t Shake the Foundations of a 24/7 Total Power Exchange
By the Boi slave, with permission of The Boss I have a confession. During one of my first sessions with
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Slave Mattie explains why: BDSM is NOT a community of damaged individuals
I’m probably not the best person to write about this. One could say I’m a damaged individual. But I’m going
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Slave Mattie's view on the slave CV : How to find your way to a Total Power Exchange that’s true to your needs
Every TPE starts with negotiations and an eventual contract. Even if that contract is verbal, the rules of engagement MUST
A Master’s view on the Slave Petition for a TPE and/or BDSM dynamic – Part 3
Why is the sky blue? We never ask ourselves why. We should ask endless why’s, its a way of discovering
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