A Master’s view on the Slave Petition for a TPE and/or BDSM dynamic – Part 1

I get pissed off by subs messaging to say they want to be 24/7 slaves when all they are after is a text wank. Read the profile you imbecile! I’m not here for casual sex. If I want it, I go find it.
They crawl out of the corners to say ‘hello, sir’. I supply a brief rundown of my expectations.
They say ‘thank you, sir’; I wait five minutes.
‘Are you hung, sir?’ No comment.
‘When did you want to abuse my fag hole?’. No comment.
I have four ‘fag holes’ to use back at the House, why would I need yours if it doesn’t come with lifetime possession? So, send me some dick pics, tell me in nauseating detail how want me to strap you to the bed – I may even have a little wank. My guarantee? An hour after I have wasted an orgasm on you, I will forget you existed.

Want to be a slave? Start thinking like one. Only on a whim am I reciprocal in the bedroom. This has nothing to do with slave’s pleasure. It is all about mine. Go ask Boi slave – it has been denied sex (including masturbation) for four weeks. Side-note: this led boi slave to unwittingly prove how far it is into its training. It volunteered to me that without sex it had become more productive. Good boi. Some would say foolish, I would say he is excelling at TPE.

A healthy sexual relationship, while vital is not the focus of our dynamic. 24/7 TPE is not 24/7 sex.

Welcome, subs

What’s on the agenda this week? You are, subs. I’ve had many subs ask me how I approach a potential slave. Answer: I don’t. I’m not predatory unless I’m gagging for it. I’d much rather sit back and see what lands on my doorstep. If it wants a position at my feet, a submissive should make the first move, should it not?

There’s five factors to take into account: who the slave is, what it is, why it is, where/when it wants to fulfil its role (yes, a potential slave has choices; for now). And the most pressing matter for the submissive to think about: how it sees itself going from freedom to chains.

What better format for this than a slave petition.

First: The Who of It

I want all the relevant details. I don’t have much in common with the Old Guard, most of their protocols remain a mystery to me. There are certain bits of etiquette, of behaviour, of formalities that I carry on over into my brand of TPE. To deny Old Guard protocols would be to erase the very essence of the Master/slave dynamic. The slave petition, the begging a collar, is all tied up within these protocols.

Put all thoughts of a romantic relationship aside. I love my Bois, owned and training, in my own way. This is not a bland fairytale blend of Cinderella meets Christian Grey. You are applying for the job of existing to make my life easier. Some Masters do seek a romantic relationship with their slaves from the get go, but that’s not me. If such a thing develops organically I won’t deny it, but it’s not what I seek.

When you wear my collar your existence becomes trained on making my life easier. You pledge to love, honour and obey for life. Tattooed as property, your old life is over. I will coach, I will nurture, I will love and respect you, I will keep you safe. We won’t be riding off into the sunset together.

The CV

First, I need to see you for who you are. I need clues to show me the potential within, hence the CV. It’s meant to be condensed, not a ten page personal essay. But to get to the point, you have to start with too much before whittling it down to the key points. It’s a big picture approach to slave petitions. Through this tool I can see whether you hold potential for training. Something that courts a bit of controversy in the TPE community is my bois being involved in this decision making process. Yet we are a family. I will always have the final say, but I value their input and experience.

There is a wisdom in having it all down on paper. Society feeds us a myopic narrative of what a partnership (love or otherwise) means. Add to that: self-reflection is never a waste of time and you discover the importance of the CV. Even if you are never intending to share it with a Master you wish to serve, it’s a great tool to figure out your goals within TPE/BDSM. If you let it, it can help you figure out what you want, what you need, and why. Yes, slaves have needs and goals too. This isn’t entrapment, it’s a human being making a choice to submit and serve.

I am a natural coach. I won’t take on any sub for slave training until we can establish its why. Should you be a natural submissive, the why can seem easier, but it still helps to have a coach along the way.

What goes into the CV? First, the who.

Expect any Master to establish who you are before accepting your petition for formal training. A Master needs to know what slave was before it became such. My advice: it’s time to throw away that five page personal statement about how big a slut you are in the bedroom and start examining who you really are.

When you approach me online, I ask for two things:
1. Answers to the most basic questions
Start with age, height and weight – points to where your very basic fitness is at. Height and weight is also important when considering BDSM scenes such as rigging, caging and suspending.
I then gauge what your situation is by asking questions about your sexuality, marital status, dependants and your willingness/ability to relocate.
Marital status and the number of dependants is crucial. I expect nothing less than 24/7 commitment and I need to know that you have as few ties as possible. Having a partner and/or dependants shouldn’t necessarily shut you out of a TPE elsewhere, but you might have to compromise the time you spend on it. I wouldn’t expect anyone to sacrifice their family ties for a place at my feet and it doesn’t fit with the way I run things. I have made exceptions in the past, but you would have to pretty special, sunshine.

2. Pictures x 3
With that established, we move on to the pictures. The pictures are very specific and serve multiple purposes. All three pictures are front-facing, full body and face. Absolutely no filters, and wearing only the specific item of apparel indicated:
1. Sports shorts
2. Trainers
3. White socks
Together, those three items make up the basic House uniform. I’ll be honest with you: the uniform and the specified pictures please my predilection toward legs. I am a legs man. However, I can tell a lot more from these pictures beyond whether you have decent pegs. It’s all in the posturing and the attitude; it’s up to you to read into that what you will.

I’m not looking for an Adonis either. I’d be lying if I said bears don’t have an upper hand – they always will. I need a visual. Boi slave will be the first to tell you he is not my type, physically. In spite of this, he managed to transcend with the correct attitude and the fact that we are most definitely holding the same stick at opposite ends. He and I have much in common. If you take a model shot with filters, I’m probably going to pass you by. Next!

Establishing trust and complete honesty, it is absolutely vital to have a medical history. Not only are you entering a 24/7 lifestyle, it informs the BDSM dynamics that will be in play. The places that we tread in BDSM make it compulsory to know any physical and/or mental health issues that any participants may have. I will also ask about drug dependency, including cigarettes and alcohol. Like most BDSMers I don’t entertain drugs in scenes.

I now have a bit of information to go on. If I decide to continue, a cursory interview will take place. I will establish your upbringing, family circumstances, education, employment, etc. . This all helps down the line in establishing your why.

Here, we usually weed out those 24/7 bedroom slaves who, through persistence, held out for a little longer. It all seems like hard work? Oh lad, this is nothing compared to the work you will be doing if you exist in my House. Complaining about hard work means you’re not a slave and you never will be. Others tell me it sounds a bit like dating. I can see the similarity. But please be assured it’s not. As I established earlier, this isn’t a romance. This is a position that needs to be filled. My needs, wants, whims require constant attention. This pales in comparison to the hard work you will be putting in to your own self-improvement.

Finally, in the who of you, we talk about skills. I want to know any unique talents, any qualifications, your hobbies (should I choose to let them continue). Anything that makes you you. These skills are vitally important when it comes to the what’s and the why’s later on. Your skills and talents and your preferred activities dictate what kind of slave you will be.


I coach to succeed and you will work your fag hole off to get where you need to be. It’s reciprocal. I’m no lazy Master. I work hard. I am relentless in pursuing my goals. This strong work ethic and self-motivation must be matched by my bois. If it’s not matched, I won’t punish you with a flogger, no, I will drop you outside of the House with the suitcase you entered with.

So take this exercise as a warm up, a taste of what’s to come.

We have established who you are. In next week’s blog, I want to get to the root of what you are. Are you a natural submissive or are you a dominant person who wants to get in touch with your hidden side? Whatever the answer, we will find it.

As we continue to look at slave petitions I would urge you to do the homework. Apply for the job. Even if you’re not sending it to myself or any other Masters, play along. You might just discover something about yourself when we get to the whys and the hows?

Homework:
Three Pics:
1 – in shorts
2 – in trainers
3 – in socks
Age:
Height:
Weight:
Sexuality:
Marital Status:
Dependants:
Willingness to relocate:
Medical history (briefly):
Drugs:
Where were you born and raised?
Immediate family:
Share a couple anecdotes from your childhood:
Education (briefly):
Employment (briefly):
Skills, hobbies, qualifications:

If you complete this, don’t do anything with your answers straight away. This is just a small part of your eventual CV. We will be using these identifiers later to attach to your whys.

Be good,
The Boss and his Bois

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